Even Moses was at one time a basket case as a child. Exodus 2:3-4 We must return as a child to have us transformed- found and lifted- by the basket-case feeling of our lives being opened so it no longer is a cold case. It's as an adult child that we feel silly and embarassed as to what really matters to us, yet we begin to share those things anyway at the risk of being shamed. We tend to weave our own basket case into which we hem ourselves where the hem of the Garment cannot be touched.
Know before you sew.